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Wednesday, July 22, 2009

The meaning of " Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilahi Raaji'uun" & seven names of Allah

Assalamualaikum sumer..
aku terjumpa artikel ni kat mail box aku.. dan aku rasa, ia sangat bermakana utk kita kongsi bersama...


We often say this statement when someone dies. Also some of us may say this sentence when they lose something, suffer a setback or harm. But do you know what it means?

Everyone know that it obviously means 'To Allah we belong and to Him is our return.' But that's not what I am talking about. Do you REALLY & TRULY understand these words and their implications in a Muslim's life?
It simply mean whatever we have is not really ours. It belongs to Allah. Take a look around you, everything you see, all that you have and all that there is in you, on you, around you belongs to Allah, alone.It is Allah Who has given you all the property and goods you possess, and that He is the true Owner of them all.

So the cars that you own, the houses that you live in, the businesses you possess all truly belong to Allah The kids that He blessed you with, the health that He gave you, the time that He has allowed you to be in, are all Allah's property. Even the bodies we live in and the life that we have belongs to Allah alone.

'And to Allah belongs the inheritance of the heavens and the earth' (Surah Al-Imraan:180) 'The kingdom of the heavens and the earth and everything in them belongs to Allah.

'He has power over all things.' ( Surat al-Ma'ida: 120)

'Say: 'To Allah belongs the East and the West' (Surah al-Baqarah:142)

Since everything belongs to Allah, then we have to include even our souls in that list.. The very souls that we think of as our "self"; our "nafs"; our "being" that very thing that distinguishes you from the rest of the world, belongs to Allah. It's not yours.
In fact, YOU are not YOURS. You belong to Allah. And this is the essence of the concept of slavery to Allah in Islam.

And since He is the true Possessor of everything, and everything is His property, He allots what He wills to whomever He wills…..and then He takes it away. After all, it was Allah's to begin with. So He may give you some things and then take it back after a while.. He will bless you with a precious child that you love dearly and then He may take it away. He will grant you money, honour and status and then He may take it away.He will give you youth, vitality and health and then surely He will take it away. In fact everything you have will only be with you for a very short while. And then the Owner will claim His Right. So when Allah does reclaim what was rightfully His, WHY MOURN OUR LOSSES?

Just like a friend who lends you his book. And then after a few days, he wants it back and you give it back to him. No regrets, no sorrow and no questions asked. Similarly, if Allah takes back some of His blessings upon you for some reason, so be it. Say Alhamdulillaah. Don't grieve. Be patient.

Submit to the will of Allah, being pleased with His decision for you.
For surely He will only do what is best for you.The Owner came and took it back.
Remember that you're not the real owner. You were NEVER the real owner to begin with.
You only had everything because it was Allah who gave it to you in the first place.
If If He didn't give it to you, you wouldn't have had it in any way. In fact, you couldn't have had it.

Remember, man enters into this world empty handed and leaves it empty handed. Remember, that everything we have, all the blessings we enjoy, are gifts from the Almighty Allah. Gifts that we enjoy for a limited period until He takes them away whenever He deems fit.
They are a trust from Allah, a loan to you, to see how you respond to these gifts from Allah and how you use them.

In the obedience of the Almighty, thanking Him and worshipping Him or to the disobedience to the One Who gave then to you in the first place. Take note of the words of the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) on the two occasion of the death of his son, Ibraahim: 'Our eyes are filled with tears, our hearts with grief, but we say nothing with our lips except that which pleases Allah.... Verily, to Allah we belong, and to Him we return.' (Bukhaari)

And we all know the famous incidence about the companion Abu Talha and his wife when one of the sons died and Abu Talha was not at home. She washed and shrouded him and when Abu Talha came home and asked about his son, she said, 'The child is quiet and I hope he is in peace….' (Bukhaari)Subhanallaah….such patience! And such Iman in the statement 'Inna lillaahi wa inna ilayhi Raaji'uun'. She truly understood its meaning and the affect it should have on her life as a Muslimah, submitting to him and being pleased with whatever He has decreed for her. She knew that whatever she has, is not truly hers. Rather, it is Allah' and He took back whatever He owns at its appointed time. And it is because of this Iman so strong, this understanding, that the Prophet (Sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa Sallam) made doa for them and Allah blessed them immensely.

' They (i.e. Abu Talha and his wife) had nine sons and all of them became reciters of the Quran (by heart). ' (Bukhaari)

'Be sure we will test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in goods or lives, but give glad tidings to those who are steadfast, who say when afflicted with calamity: 'To Allah we belong and to him is our return.' They are those on who (descend) blessings from Allah and mercy and they are the once that receive guidance.' (al-Baqarah: 155)


The Prophet (PBUH) said 'Pass on knowledge from me even if it is only one verse'

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Tag dari Julie... (aku jawab secara paksa-rela)

AMARAN: TAG INI PANJANG CERITANYA MACAM KARANGAN ( HANYA UNTUK YANG DAH BERKAHWIN..hehe :) ) - aku tiru ayat ko, julie..

1)Tempat pertemuan anda dan suami utk pertama kalinya..

Memula jumpa dia kat kilang lama (Royalton). Aku bhgn HDC, dia bhgn RC.

2)Pandangan peribadi anda terhadap sikap atau ciri2 pada dirinya ketika mula2 berkenalan…

Emm.. mula2 kenal? Dia ni suka lepak lat lab aku, hu ha hu ha dgn geng dia. So, aku judge dia sbg org yg happy go lucky a.k.a sengal. Walaupon sengal, tapi dia open minded, berani mempertahankan hak diri, kalo tak puas hati tu, selamba je lawan boss.

3)Tempat ‘dating’ di mana dia meluahkan perasaan pada anda

Time luah perasaan tu tak dating pon.. dalam tepon je...

4)Berapa lama hubungan anda hingga ke jinjang pelamin?

kawan:2005
couple:2005-2007
tunang: 18 Nov 2007 sampai nikah 23 May 2009.

5)Berapa lama usia perkahwinan anda sekarang?

baru nak masuk 2 bulan...

6)Kejutan yg pernah dia buat pada anda

Hahaha.. dia kata dia tak reti nak buat kejutan, tapi masa b'day tahun lepas, ada la terkejut, pasal tetiba je ada mamat cina anta bunga kat kilang, org opis panggil nama aku.. aku ingat salah org ke.. sekali tengok nama sender: Tunang aku! (masa tu tunang lagi).. terkozut giller...

7)Perancangan anda dan dia dlm rumahtangga

Nak kene list down sume ke?
Wat sementara waktu..tgh plan nak carik keta..
pastu nak usahakan tanah kat belakang umah tu..

8) Bagaimana dia melayani karenah anak2?

Dia memang suka budak2.. anak2 buah dia rapat dgn dia, tapi lagi rapat dengan aku w/pon baru kenal.. hahahah..

7)Hubungan suami anda dengan keluarga sebelah anda…

Wat masa ni dia tengah berusaha la nak menyesuaikan diri..
so far ok la.. sebab adik beradik aku pon jarang ada kat umah mak aku.. so, jarang la nak borak2.
kalo time kumpul je la baru borak2.
mslhnye diorg tatau nk ringkaskan panggilan nama suami aku, so, terpaksa panggil penuh: AZHARI (kan malas nk sebut panjang2.. hehe)

TAG:
1) Cik Jufen
2) Shamsiah (Sambest)
3) Semua la kengkawan yang da kawen yang aku tada list dlm blog aku..

Monday, July 13, 2009

Da pikir pasal baju raya?

Arini da 21 Rejab, sekejap je da nak masuk bulan sya'ban, dan seterusnya Ramadhan..
Rasanya skrg ni masing2 da sibuk tempah baju raya, yang jual kuih lak da sibuk promosi kuih raya.. aku lak da ditugaskan carik langsir raya utk rumah mak mentua ni... huhu..

Posa pon lom start lagi, tapi ramai yang da prepare awal utk raya.. tanak kelam kabut katanya...
tapi kalo pegi mana2 kedai jahit, mostly ramai yang da tutup tempahan.. kalo ada yg amek pon utk baju yg simple2 jer..

Tahun ni aku xsure la ada baju raya ke tak.. tapi baju nikah tu ada.. leh pakai utk raya.. tapi rasanya mcm terlalu men'jangok' laks.. hehehehe..
tapi xpela.. baju tu pon aku da sewakan kat butik pakcik aku... biar je la kat sana...

Tadi aku baca emel2 kat yahoo.. then aku terjumpa la blog ni...
http://maratussolehah.blogspot.com/

dalam blog tu banyak gak koleksi jubah2 yang menarik.. kalo da tak dan nk buat baju..
aku nak beli yang ready made je la..

dalam blog tu, aku berkenan kat stokin wuduk tu.. dah lama tau pasal stokintu, tapi tak penah lak terjumpa kt mana2..

ada tak sape2 tau kat area kalng/shah alam yg jual stokin wuduk ni...?

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Gambar kawen dari sepupu aku...

Salam kengkawan..

Sementara tunggu gmbar dari cameraman, enjoy gmbr2 dari sepupu aku okey..













































































Thursday, July 2, 2009

Wedding - 7 Jun 2009

Soooorrrryyyy guys...



Tersangat bz sampai xdan nk update entry baru.. Entry ni pon dah consider basi psl da dekat sebulan da pon majlis berlangsung...

ahaks.. diam xdiam, rupenye da sebulan lebey aku jadik isteri orang..


Ramai yg tny ape perasaan da jadi isteri org?
Dah tentu jawapannye --- "best....!!!"



Sebenanrnya aku tgh tunggu gambar dari cameraman ni, tak dapat2 lagi smpi skrg.. katanya lagi 2 minggu sbb line pnjg.. (byk sgt gmbr pengantin yang nak di edit).


Aku masih menunggu dgn penuh kesabaran ni... so, korang pon tunggu je la ek smpi aku dapat gambar2 kawen tu..



Cuma ni je la satu gmbr yg aku dpt dpd sepupu aku, gmbr sekitar majlis bertandang di pihak lelaki...



konsep adalah - hijau.......

sape2 yg dtg ke majlis hari tu sudah tentu terpukau dengan konsep hijau-maniac family suami aku.. Khemah hijau, air hijau, agar2 hijau, pelamin hijau, baju hijau, sampai kan ke bubur sum-sum pon kaler hijau... nasib baik lauk tak hijau gak.. kalo nak hijau gak, kene hidang fresh garden salad la... huhu... ade ke org kenduri makan salad je???


Kesimpulannya, semuanya serba hijau...



So, ini jelah gambar yang aku ada untuk tatapan korang..

Gambar ni bersama kawan-kawan suami aku...

Korang kenal tak lelaki baju kotak2 yang berdiri betul2 kat belakang aku & suami aku....??

Kalo kenal sila bagitau.... hehehehe..